Xobni will disrupt Social Networks as we know them

Obviously the main value proposition of social networks is to show everyone else who we know. It's not about keeping in touch or keeping a record of our contacts, it's about proving to everyone else how popular we are. If we don't have many connections or friends, we simply say that we don't really participate; "I'm not an active user". It's pointless.

What we really need is a way to keep track of those people who are actually a part of our "social network" (can we get a new name, please), and a way to keep up with them and their changing profiles. Then Xobni Insight appears on the scene and seems to be heading in this direction. Read more about it if you are unfamiliar with the way it works here, here, and here.

I was lucky enough to get an early invitation to the Xobni beta was immediately blown away at how it exposes the social network that you already have and updates the "network" as you organically add people. Its not about meeting people, it's about getting to know the people that you know better, and staying in touch. If Xobni can figure out a way to build a network around the exposure of this data, they will instantly create the most useful "social network" around, at least for business.

Here is an example of how a Xobni-powered social network would have changed the dynamics of a recent Connection Request exchange on LinkedIn. A guy contacted me in an effort to make contact with one of my connections. I forwarded his info to my connection and never got a response. I tried again because I really wanted to hook them up (it was a potentially lucrative gig for my connection), to no avail. I eventually called and left a message telling my connection to contact this guy, but no dice. Oh well, time to move along.

Why did this happen and how could it have been avoided with network intelligence powered by Xobni? First, if LinkedIn had Xobni metrics embedded for my connections, or if Xobni had its own web-based visibility into my network (as I choose to expose it), the guy trying to contact my connection would have noticed that I haven't communicated via email with my connection in a few months. In fact, given the ability to drill down, they could have seen that the last time we had an email conversation was over three months ago and that I had, in fact, emailed my connection two times in that time period with no responses to those messages. Perhaps my connection is just that, a "connection", and not a "relationship". Given that, perhaps this guy would have avoided contacting me.

For someone doing prospecting who doesn't want to waste time, this type of network intelligence would be very beneficial (and valuable). I think it is safe to assume that only a handful of everyone's connections are their true friends or close colleagues. Of my connections, probably 10% are people I deal with even once a month. The rest are people I want to maintain a connection with "just in case", but rarely go to them for any thing of substance. I don't have any substantive metrics, but anecdotal evidence suggests that many (if not most) LinkedIn networks are like that. Most of the people I know really well are not on LinkedIn and, frankly, have no interest.

A Xobni-powered social network would completely change the dynamics of social networking; in fact, it could turn the entire model on its head. Create a way to feed the Xobni engine with multiple email accounts, IM, Skype, mobile phone and SMS data (via on-device software), and you can create visibility into who is really connected and who did a glorified reciprocal link bit. As long as the Xobni powered network is opt-in with the ability to expose my data to only certain groups of people and the network effect data is anonymous, the possibilities are incredible. So far, I am very impressed with the Xobni Outlook plugin and can see some incredible things on the horizon for this company.